May Newsletter - this HOUSE | your HOME


A fresh start for your home this May

Hi Reader!

The windows start opening more, the days feel a little longer, and suddenly you can see your home differently. Not in a “I need to renovate everything” kind of way… but in a “this could feel better” kind of way.

And the truth is—most homes don’t need a big overhaul.
They just need a reset. But first...

Download the May Home Maintenance Checklist now!

May Checklist.pdf


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So this month, instead of adding more to your to-do list, I want you to focus on just a few small shifts that make a big difference:

1. Reset one space (not the whole house)
Pick one area that’s been bothering you—your kitchen counter, mudroom, or that one chair that collects everything. Clear it, simplify it, and only put back what actually belongs.

2. Let your home breathe
Open the windows. Swap out heavy blankets. Even just changing pillow covers or adding something light and fresh can shift the entire feel of a room.

3. Do a quick “walk-through”
Walk through your home like a guest would. What feels cluttered? What feels unfinished? What feels really good? This is one of the easiest ways to spot small changes that matter.

4. Get ahead of summer (just a little)
Now is the perfect time to check a few simple things—A/C service, lawn care equipment, and those small maintenance tasks that are easy to forget but make summer smoother.

5. Create one space you actually enjoy using
Not perfect—just better. A chair with a throw, a cleaned-off patio, a corner of your kitchen that feels calm instead of chaotic.

Because your home isn’t about perfection.
It’s about how it supports your everyday life.

If you'd like more guidance or worksheets to accomplish these simple but impactful task, you need the Weekend Home Reset workbook I created just for this!


New in the shop


I’ve been working on a few tools to help make all of this easier (and more realistic for busy homes):

• A Home Repair Log Book to keep track of everything in one place (so you’re not guessing later)
• My Interior Design resources to help you make confident decisions without overthinking every detail
• And my cozy journal collection, which also makes a thoughtful (and easy) Mother’s Day gift 💛


If you’ve been waiting for a sign to get started… this is it.

Not a full makeover.
Not a perfect plan.

Just one small step to make your home feel better this week.

You’ve got this,​

P.S. If your home has felt a little overwhelming lately, start with just one surface. One small win turns into momentum faster than you think.


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I'm a REALTOR with a degree in architecture and passion for design. I'm here because I believe everyone deserves to live in a home they love. Whether that means finding a new house or renovating the one you are in. I'm here for you! I am a mom of four (2 girls, 2 boys) who keep me REALLY busy. I also really enjoy gardening and my 2 dogs. After a variety of careers there are two passions I keep coming back to, architecture and sharing helpful information. I love helping others get inspired and do those projects in their home that will make them happy. I’ve always had big dreams to make interior design accessible to everyone. I am beyond excited to be here with you! Be inspired to create your dream home!

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